Taking Them Back
So, what do we do when our colleague returns from “vacation.”
Ignoring them is probably the worst thing you can do, closely followed by interrogating them.
A person in recovery has a lot running through their mind. The skills they learn in treatment need to be meticulously maintained or run the risk of becoming noise lost in the maze of thinking needed to survive like everybody else. The difficulty many who lost their way while in the grip of drugs and or alcohol have navigating in a complex world do not magically disappear once treatment is over, rather things become more difficult. Losing an effective coping mechanism takes some getting used to, and the best way to get used to it is by acceptance from the people we spend our time with.
It is difficult for people who do not struggle with addiction to understand that the person struggling did not create their problem with intent. Nearly every one of us takes a drink at some point in our lives, and a lot of us experiment with drugs. Nobody – not you – me – or the person unreachable knew that they would be the one that would be unable to do so safely. Judging a person, and believing that you are somehow superior to them because you can drink safely, or leave the drugs alone after trying and deciding to leave them is useless. The person addicted has already judged themselves, and more likely than not has done so harshly.
Working together to keep a person on track is essential.
The best part about that is the only one doing the truly hard work is the addicted person. Everybody else simply has to be understanding.
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